Girl Diaries Entry 1: How To Text A Guy You Like

Whaddup People?

                The Mumbai Girls are back again with the first Girl Diaries Entry. This article wasn’t planned but a friend of ours told us she never knew how to text the guy she likes. So we thought about it a little (me, Miss P because Miss J has her exams, All The Best Miss J) and so here it is. And as a girl I know how difficult it is to text the guy you like. What should I tell him? Should I send a smiley? Should I put an exclamation mark? Should I send him a wink emoji? What picture should I keep as my dp? Will he like the picture? Does it make my eyes come out? Should I put a selfie? Anddd so many other questions.  Okay the questions were a bit exaggerated. We don’t do that, or do we? But you get it right? There is so much pressure! This has happened to us so many times. Girls can talk for hours non-stop but when it comes to a guy you really really like you never know what to say and end up saying something stupid. Yes it has happened to all of us once. So here are some steps to talk to a guy and make him like you. So this is from my experience and it works well with most type of guys. We hope it helps you J Let’s get right into it.

(Follow the steps like a mantra)

STEP 1: TEXT HIM FIRST (JUST THIS ONCE)

Okay so I know  this is something people tell you not to do but this step is really important for him to know you.  And for that (If you don’t already talk to him) you need to message him.

STEP 2: CASUAL CONVERSATION

Instead of the usual “What’s up?” Say something like “How was your basketball game?” if you know he is into sports or “How was that movie?” if you know he went for some movie with his friends or that girl he always hangs out with or just a “How was your day?” Make him want to answer your questions. Talk to him about his interests be it sports, movies, songs and whatever else he is into (We highly recommend you to do research on his interests so you can have some quality conversation and he knows you are actually into that stuff)

STEP 3: NO YES OR NO QUESTIONS

This is very important. Don’t ask Yes or No questions. That will ruin the conversation and he will probably start talking to someone else and won’t reply to you. Ask open ended questions and also use Step 2 tips about talking about stuff he is into and HE WILL TALK.

STEP 4: MAKE HIM WANT TO TALK TO YOU

So you are having a great conversation with the guy and you feel the need to talk to him all night but PLEASE DON’T DO THAT. Wait for it and play it carefully. You will want to make him want to talk to you again and again. So just stop the conversation mid-way saying “Hey it was great talking to you but I gotta go to bed.” or “Hey I have some work. It was nice talking to you.” Make him feel like “Damn, I wanted to talk to her.” (Don’t end the conversation really fast. Make sure he is very much into the conversation before you end it) So say “Hi” or wave at him when you meet him at school/college or work but DO NOT MESSAGE HIM. He will message you first the next time. And trust me, he’ll keep on messaging you always.

So that’s pretty much it. It isn’t much but I am really tired. I will probably do one What To Not Text A Guy You Like article or maybe How Do You Know If A Guy Likes You or just something else. Mail/tweet us what you want. 

Also in other news we are starting a Boys World Series which will be the boy version of Girls Diaries.

Next article up tonight or tomorrow will be March Favourites

Love you,

Xoxo,

Miss P and Miss J

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